What does being a boyfriend mean?
Many girls, having begun dating a young man, feel that their life has changed significantly. They begin to feel more attractive, older. Do all these changes occur only because he appeared? So, what does a guy mean to a girl, how does she differ from a “lonely” girlfriend?
Parts of a whole
Dreaming of the appearance of a close friend, girls rarely think about possible changes. If the relationship is serious, first of all, you will begin to feel like a part of one whole. Lovers (especially at first) can not live a day without their "half". Becoming a girlfriend of a guy, you will begin to live by his interests, communicate with his friends, experience his difficulties as your own, solve his problems. And this is quite normal.
However, every girl should remember that there is a danger to dissolve in her friend, to become his shadow. But so you can lose yourself. In addition, girls often and in response require such full commitment.And if at the beginning of a relationship it seems quite natural, then over time, the young man may get bored with excessive attention to his person. Therefore, we must not forget that everyone should have time for themselves, personal interests. Your attention should be pleasant to the young man, but unobtrusive. And do not forget about self-esteem. Only a self-sufficient person is of interest.
Do not forget about girlfriends
And further. Sometimes a girl, with the advent of a young man, begins to behave arrogantly towards "lonely" girlfriends. However, the presence of a guy is not an indicator of adulthood, luck and intelligence. Perhaps your girlfriends really are not lucky enough to meet a decent couple. But this does not mean that they are worse than you. Hopefully, these tips will help you understand what it means to be a girlfriend of a guy, and to build relationships with your soul mate and people around you correctly.