Would you let your wife celebrate her birthday with her ex-husband and his new family?
Since you are at work on this day, she does not want to wait for you until the evening. He says I'm not a dog to wait for you.
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Answered 6 march 2017 17:15
He speaks disrespectfully and harshly, to be honest, even if his birthday is coming soon. In a good family relationship do not communicate. Well, look: this is her day, it is clear and natural her desire to celebrate it with friends or relatives. Once this situation has developed, a compromise can be chosen. The former husband is rather an old friend, the former know us well. Many couples, after divorced or separated, retain at least a good acquaintance or friendship. If everything was serious, he would not have a new family, and she would not be with you. But she is with you! So if you are jealous or resentful becausethat she wants to spend this important day for her with other people, one of whom is the former, can be perceived as a desire to celebrate her birthday with good friends, in the company of which it is nice and pleasant. Wouldn't you like to spend your birthday with your friends? And once such circumstances have arisen, then offer to hold a separate joint romantic dinner for you two at home or in a good restaurant: she will be pleased with such attention and strengthen the relationship. Once there are such circumstances, you can choose such an optimal option. Take it easy. And if there are problems in the relationship (judging by the phrase of the wife - there is still), fear of betrayal, jealousy, establish relationships in a couple, and then this negative will not remain.